Love At First Sight
Is “love at first sight” true love? Or does love take time to grow and develop?
Two people may indeed fall in love with each other during their initial encounter. However, that spontaneous and rapturous experience in which two people lock eyes with each other, time seems to be compressed and an irrepressible stirring within their hearts occurs even before they open their mouths is likely something that happens only in the movies.
The true defining moment is when two people actually begin speaking to one another, for it is then that they start to find out what the other is truly like. The initial spark that ignited between them may grow into an open flame, or it may be extinguished. It all depends on the rapport they establish with one another. A false feeling of “love at first sight” may be doused rather quickly.
Forming a good rapport is a sort of mutual discovery. It is when two people discover that they like each other’s company, that they have a certain chemistry between themselves, that they feel at ease talking about anything and everything-then all this can cause a rapport to deepen still further.
After attraction, the excitement can become still greater when desire and sex enter into the equation.
But is forming a relationship that was “meant to be” just a matter of luck? It is easy to assume that it was just two people’s “destiny” to find each other, but the two people involved have to make it happen. Certainly, there is a degree of conscious intention that results in purposeful action.
The formation of rapport is a sort of joint effort that involves two people who like each other and wish to get to know one another better. It is a mutual understanding resulting in a deeper connection between two people.
Other pleasant surprises can follow this feeling of deep mutual understanding. Along with eye gazing and communication with one another on a deep level comes a feeling of excitement-a feeling that the two people know each other as no one else does.
Finally, the two participants feel that they have met someone with whom they can be completely free, open and understood. This can be the highest of all highs!
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